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Showing posts with label Hate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hate. Show all posts

29 February 2008

Reactions

Kathy Griffin (potentially offensive speech when clicking on that link). At the 2007 Emmy Awards, she made a statement upon receiving her award that, if said to a colleague, would be extremely insulting, and she completed that statement with, "This award is now my god." This is old news to many, as it happened last year and was talked about a good deal, as far as I know, in religious circles.

Surely, if she'd said this to someone in the Screen Actors Guild (or whatever organization), she'd have been forced to offer an apology, and in the e-mails I've received (typically entitled, "Yes, I am offended"), it's been suggested that she'd have never gotten away with this statement if it'd been directed toward Muhammed. Her words have been called "hate speech."

As people who know and serve the God she maligned, how are we to react? Should we have a particular reaction? If we say, "I'm going to boycott everything she's a part of," is that really of value? My guess is that most of us didn't watch her shows, anyhow. A while back I started to watch something she starred in and had to turn it off pretty much immediately (can't recall if it was foul language or innuendo or what). But if that is our response -- not watching anything she's involved in -- what's our motivation behind it? Anger? Personal injury?

Are we justified in becoming indignant, or isn't that kind of talk something we should expect of a comedienne who doesn't believe that Jesus is, indeed, God, and has built a career upon sarcasm and irreverence? Should we have expected her to conform to some higher standard? If so, why?

This leads to the important question: is it correct for the Christ-follower to expect people around him to meet his moral standards of living as prescribed by the Word of God? When we get upset about something like this and are vocal about it, does it damage our visual, active statement of faith and adherence to Jesus' teaching to turn the other cheek, offer our proverbial tunic, and love those who don't love us (Matthew 5:38-48)? Or does it show that we will take a stand for what we believe in?

The first area of Scripture that comes to my mind as a literal example of how to react to insult or injury is this:

"When they came to a place called The Skull, they nailed him to the cross. And the criminals were also crucified—one on his right and one on his left. Jesus said, 'Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.' And the soldiers gambled for his clothes by throwing dice." (Luke 23:33-34, NLT)

Oddly, though Jesus was God, one never gets the impression that He was being condescending when He spoke to anyone (except the religious leaders, and that was more anger than condescension). When Jesus saw the crowds during His ministry, He had compassion on them (Matthew 9:36, Mark 6:34), and He displayed the same compassion while He was on the cross.

Before reacting to situations, and definitely before forwarding an e-mail expressing personal disgust or offense, it is our responsibility as Christ-followers to make certain that our reaction is the same one that Jesus Christ would have, were He in our situation.

30 January 2008

Wow!!!!!!

...when one exclamation point just isn't good enough.

It's been said that the reason expletives are used so often is that our society now tends to go overboard in its expressions. Whether this is due to a limited vocabulary or a desire to state something in a way that's bigger and better and better than the next guy, I'm not sure. Of course, advertising media has pounded this into our heads, too. No longer are fast-food value meals topping out at large, they are "Super-Size[d]." Coffee sizes don't go to down to "small" at one coffee-selling chain; they're "Tall," "Grande," and "Venti."

"Hate" is one of those extreme words I've attempted to remove from my vocabulary except when it really, honestly applies. For instance, I don't hate rice. I don't like it and I'd rather eat just about anything else (other than food containing curry or any form of celery), but I don't hate rice. (I'm thankful that I wasn't born in an Asian country. I'd be in a tough spot.)

We've learned to soft-pedal the word "hate," and it no longer carries with it the intensity that the word should truly imply. "Hate" actually comes from the Old English word "hatain," which means to... ah... "hate."

"You who love the Lord, hate evil!" (Psalm 97:10, NKJV)

"I will set nothing wicked before my eyes; I hate the work of those who fall away; It shall not cling to me." (Psalm 101:3, NKJV)

"Your commandments give me understanding; no wonder I hate every false way of life." (Psalm 119:104, NLT)

"I hate and abhor all falsehood, but I love your instructions." (Psalm 109:163, NLT)

Wow!!!!! (Oh, sorry...) There is, indeed, precedent and license for Christ-followers to hate something, after all.

(This post, by the way, is not addressing verses wherein something like, "I hate those who do evil," is said, nor is it addressing the popular phrase, "Love the sinner, hate the sin," a statement which has been used by Christians to justify ungodly and destructive actions. Those are at least two different topics. I'm focusing strictly on our own internal issues today. Please try to avoid addressing the former in the comments.)

I find myself wondering if I really hate evil -- words, motives, and actions that I know are sin and go against what my relationship with Christ is built upon. Do I hate those things, or do I simply prefer to walk with Christ?

Understand that we often can't flip a mental or spiritual switch and simply begin to hate evil any more than a builder can take a concept from blueprint to finished product within in a day. Getting to the point of hating sin within our lives is a process -- the renewing of our minds -- brought on by cultivating a relationship with God.

However, we can't use this growth process as a license to continue on in whatever way we find most comfortable. Using the excuse, "I know I should do this (or shouldn't do that); but God's still working on me," is honestly a little weak. The fact that we'd have that kind of thought at all is an indicator that we know what's right, but we're intentionally making a choice to not act in that manner.

Your (and my) assignment for the rest of the week: catch yourself every time you say the word "hate." Ask yourself if you really mean that about the thing to which you're referring (and correct yourself as needed). Then ask yourself if that sentiment is the same one you'd apply to sin in your life.

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