"'What sorrow awaits the leaders of my people—the shepherds of my sheep—for they have destroyed and scattered the very ones they were expected to care for,' says the Lord." (
Jeremiah 23:1, NLT)
Just the other day I was told of yet another young friend -- someone who grew up in a "church" environment -- who's embracing agnosticism. My purpose at this point (in this post, anyway) is not to bemoan a falling away, but to note that this person is seeking truth, and doesn't believe that it was found in anything the Church presented.
Why is that?
What are we doing?! In one way the "sheep" mentality works -- we're supposed to be shepherding people. On the other hand, we can't see people simply as sheep who'll blindly go wherever we lead them (or fail to lead them, especially). I wonder if this is what we Christ-followers do. We have an answer that we know to be true, and expect others to embrace it just the same as we do, and to do so without question (or that they'll take the simple, Sunday School answers), and honestly, it just doesn't work that way all the time.
I have observed that we in the Church are scared -- yes, scared -- to allow people ask "tough" questions in the church, because we're afraid that we can't let them do so in a controlled enough environment, and that others around may hear them and question the validity of the beliefs that we've presented. Or that they might come up with some theology that is not Baptist (for instance) in nature.
This fear and the sweeping under the rug of serious and valid questions leads to the thing I noted above -- people leaving the fellowship of the Church and seeking to find answers to their questions elsewhere.
And really, I think I've had quite enough of that. I'm interested in discussion. I'm interested in talking to people about why I believe it's
logical to have faith in the God of the Bible. I'm interested in finding the answers to the difficult questions people ask. But I'm not interested in steering people toward a religion of rules or a denomination, frankly. I'm interested in steering them toward a relationship with Jesus Christ.
One argument against this is the one that says, "You can't argue someone into following Christ." I'm not claiming that I can. But I am implying that this very argument is at the foundation of the problem: "I won't argue my point, therefore I'm completely unwilling to listen to yours."
So... where shall I start? How do we engage people in conversation and discussion? It's not going to happen at a church building -- the people I'm talking about have no interest in and no use for church buildings and assemblies of people they see as blind followers of a set of rules. Whether they're right or wrong, this fact remains.
Again, where do I start? I'm asking for practical, real-life things that I can do in Madison or Huntsville, AL. And I'm asking for your participation, if you desire.
"So we keep on praying for you, asking our God to enable you to live a life worthy of his call. May he give you the power to accomplish all the good things your faith prompts you to do." (
2 Thessalonians 1:11, NLT)